I just received a copy of Richard Curwin and Allen Mendler's book, "Discipline with Dignity" - I am looking forward to sinking my teeth into this book. It provides a model for how to create safe spaces by involving youth in defining procedures, rules and consequences based on values or principles compatible with learning. I think that this could be an invaluable resource for youthworkers - particularly for those of us who work with kids who live in high-risk environemnts.It takes into consideration the work of Howard Gardner on multiple intelligences and the need for difference in teaching strategies - something which has been championed by constructivist educators. They also explore strategies for working with children who are physically aggressive and explode without provocation, One of my major fears for youthworkers is the danger of not having an effective, strength-based strategy for dealing with anger in our after-school programs. Having a community center serve as a safe space is paramount to having a program that is transformational. This book can help move us all in such a positive direction.Here's a neat poem written in 1988 by a high school senior from Houston, Texas. This poem is used at the beginning of the book (p.1f.). It captures the tension between teacher and student, or in the case of my line of work, youthworker and youth:Silent DefianceI'm the one who watched,
As you laughed;
I'm the one who listened patiently,
While you talked unceasingly;
I'm the one who sat silent,
As your shouts grew louder;
I'm the one who always came,
While your chair sat empty;
I'm the one whose dreams were hidden,
as yours were fulfilled;
I'm the one who cared,
while you butchered knowledge;
I'm the one who watched your petty wars
over something you couldn't understand;
I'm the one who reasoned,
as you discussed,
I'm the one who will remember
when all of you will forget.
Dedicated to Laura - who understood
(Curwin & Mendler, Discipline with dignity, 1999, 1f.)